When families and technology collide…

Mommy, Why is There a Server in the House?

This cracked me up, and some of the “reviews” have some additional humor in them as well.

Mommy, Why is There a Server in the House?
Click to see comments and reviews which are kind of funny too.


Apparently a marketing stunt by Microsoft to promote their Home Server product.

How Much Does Searching for Cheaper Gas Cost the Average Person?

So I get an  email today from one of those friendly family members that likes to forward things on to everybody in his address book.

name removed wrote:

Hi All,

Found this today and it seems to be pretty accurate. MSN does some sort of polling and checks gas prices every night. You just enter your Zip code and scroll down and find the stations near you. It actually has a wide radius.

Anyway, it’s fun to play with and you can check out which way to head when looking for your next load approval when you fill up!!!

Best to ALL….     

http://autos.msn.com/everyday/gasstations.aspx?zip=&src=Netx

Hmmm. The difference between the most expensive place on the local list and the least expensive place is 20 cents…

But those are the two extremes. If I look at the possibility of all of the gas stations that are on the list that I’ve ever gone to, and are likely to be the ones that I continue to go to, the difference between most expensive and least expensive is about 8 cents a gallon.

So for my 15 gallon tank, on a fill from empty, I’m looking at paying around $55.80 or $57.00.  That’s a $1.20 difference.  If I’m filling only a half a tank, then that’s a $0.60 difference.  Put a different way, we’re talking about a 2% savings.

Is it even worth the extra effort to consult the map, figure out who’s the cheapest and then make the effort to choose a station that isn’t on your normal path just to save that little?

While the technology is interesting, and the idea that you can pull up the data and give it a quick review, the amount of time you waste in doing so is more than what you’ll probably save.

My suggestion for saving real money on gasoline:  Drive less!!  ;-)

All of the penny pinchers that I know never hesitate to put 20 miles on a car to pick up a gallon of milk!

UPDATE: Within 10 minutes of me writing this, a buddy calls me up and says, “Holy Cow! I can’t believe how much gas is! I just put $62 in my car to fill it up!”

Look… if you need to drive, do you have a choice? You have to buy gas. When it’s basically the same price everywhere, you are going to have to pay the price. Complainin’ ain’t going to do you any good and you just wasted 5 minutes of my time that I could have been off doing something to make some more money so that I can afford gas too!

;-)

RIAA: Litigious Bullies?

I don’t like bullies and if you ask me, the best way to deal with a bully that won’t leave you alone is to punch them in the nose.

That’s why I like the story of Tanya Andersen and how she’s successfully fought back the RIAA and now she’s going after them for their questionable — possibly illegal — legal tactics.

Is Myspace Good for Society?

According to some experts, the mainstream media has been unfair to social
networking sites like
MySpace, and Facebook. School principles even send memos home, warning parents to
beware of the dangers of the popular web hangouts that kids are increasingly
spending time on.

A handful of people who study these types of things were asked if these sites
were as bad as they are made out to be. Their opinions varied
on what the pros and the cons were, but none of what they had to say was
scary in the least, and some were critical of the negative media coverage.

Social networking is about building social capital, and these tools facilitate
that. These virtual worlds aren’t a good place to live your whole life in, but
they are making it easier for kids to make connections with people outside of
their local social circles. In doing so, they learn new things, get exposed
to new ideas, and can blaze new trails. The vast majority of kids are wise enough
to know to stay out of trouble and when trouble finds them, they know how to deal
with it.

If parents help to guide their children in their use of these tools, they
can minimize the chances that the kids will engage in risky behavior, or put too
much personal information online, and then the kids can safely benefit from
the positive aspects of social networking.

Read the article, and then let us know if you agree or disagree?

Student 3.0: Now with Gigabit Ethernet Built In

Have you tested your kids’ to make sure that they are operating at the optimal download bit-rates in school?

Parents, school administrators, and teachers can’t seem to effuse enough about the wonders of computers in education. They insist we need to have wired schools; otherwise, a lack of adequate computing resources is going to cripple our kids’ success when they enter the real world.

Computers are beneficial. Their ability to simulate, automate, and communicate is amazing. The Internet can easily retrieve text, sound, video and more, from anywhere in the world in mere milliseconds. Over one-hundred million websites exist, ready to render up information and Google is ready to connect you with it, assuming that you can put the right keywords into the search box and click the mouse.

Some view education as the transfer and buildup of knowledge, so connecting kids with computers seems like the right thing to do, since computers are very adept at storing, retrieving, transferring, and presenting information.

Unfortunately, people start confusing the way computers work with how kids’ brains work. They assume that googling something and getting back information educational. Steve Talbott refers to this as the fact-shoveling model of education. Worse, some people think it’s less important to know things because you can always look it up on demand, later when you need it.

In Steve’s most recent newsletter, he points out that real education involves much more than acquiring facts. Minds also need training to be “capable of attending in a sustained, focused, ever more deeply penetrating way to whatever aspect of the world and its problems we are addressing…” The way that the mind’s cognitive processes and creative, imaginative abilities work is entirely unrelated to the way computers process and deliver information.

He’s concerned, not that we don’t have enough computers in education, but perhaps education has already become too computerized. He’s concerned that in the past couple of decades that education has gotten away from teach kids how to connect the dots, and creative and imaginative problem solving. Education is evolving into fact shoveling, in part due to the influences of the information revolution and people’s blind enthusiasm for technology.

Do you see efforts in your schools to wire them and put technology into the kids’ hands without a real understanding or plan as to how this is actually going to benefit the kids? Do they just see technology as a silver bullet and just assume that it will make the kids smarter because it can just download more facts into their brains?

Can One Bumbling Scientist Destroy Us All?

Apparently not… supposedly…  At least not by creating a black hole here on Earth.

My feeble little mind understands enough to create worry about some silly things. Take black holes for existence. My working layman’s definition of a black hole is some entity that is so incredibly dense, that its gravity is so strong that he can pull matter into itself, and it’s so strong that even light can’t escape it.

My physics major friends are all laughing at me now.

But when I read stories about the Large Hadron Collider and how it might be used to create microscopic black holes, I then envision the LHC getting immediately sucked into the black hole, followed by the rest of the lab at CERN, followed by Switzerland, and then Europe. Then I figure I’ll hear that sound you get when you snap your cheek with your finger as the whole planet collapses into the black hole.

If you are willing to trust the scientists, this isn’t likely to happen.

Phewww!

Are Computers Hurting Reading Abilities?

There is disagreement over a National Endowment for the Arts (NEA) study that makes a case that people are reading less and kids are in trouble as a result.

The NEA study is ignoring online reading, according to Steven Johnson in his article Dawn of the Digital Natives. He contends, “if you actually read the report, what you find are some startling omissions - omissions that ultimately lead to a heavily distorted view of the Google generation and its prospects.” He points out that “The NEA makes a convincing case that both kids and adults are reading fewer books. “Non-required” reading — ie, picking up a book for the fun of it — is down 7% since 1992 for all adults, and 12% for 18-24 year olds.”

But the NEA report also shows that younger children are making progress in their reading abilities. Teenager’s reading scores have only dropped by about 1% in 15 years. Is that Alarming? It doesn’t seem to be.

Kids as well as adults increasingly read more online, and in Johnson’s estimation, they are “exercising the same cognitive muscles” whether the words are represented in ink or pixels.

The NEA hit back, saying that Steven Johnson misrepresented the report. Sunil Iyengar is the director of the Office of Research & Analysis at the NEA, and he says that they did not exclude online reading from their analysis. He says their data comes from studies “…asking people how frequently they read anything whatsoever for pleasure — a category so broad as to include text of any length in any format through any medium, from books to cereal boxes to, yes, computer screens.”

Then Iyengar parades additional statistics which seem to support the NEA’s claims.

But as you read both of these articles, the notion that Johnson and Iyengar are both cherry picking statistics to support their arguments emerges.

Iyengar ends with some honesty that suggests we need to put this debate on hold for a while because we really don’t have all the answers: “Now is the time for educators and intellectuals to produce sound empirical studies of the risks and benefits of electronic media.”

Perhaps it’s not the medium as much as the quality of the content that makes the true difference in kid’s becoming smart.

Until a clear answer emerges, a policy of moderation in using online media is probably the safest path, and encouraging reading is never a bad thing.

Hat tip to Kevin Arthur for linking to the articles mentioned above. Here are additional book related links from his great blog, Question Technology:

Internet Addiction Disorder

I learned through Dr. Helen, that Internet Addiction Disorder (IAD) is being proposed for inclusion in the DSM-V.

IAD has actually been proposed for inclusion as a psychiatric diagnosis in the next issue of Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V).Writing in the new issue of the American Journal of Psychiatry, Dr. Jerald J. Block, M.D., said that excessive internet and computer usage should be labeled a mental disease, as it has all of the components of a compulsive-impulsive disorder:

1) excessive use, often associated with a loss of sense of time or a neglect of basic drives,

2) withdrawal, including feelings of anger, tension, and/or depression when the computer is inaccessible,

3) tolerance, including the need for better computer equipment, more software, or more hours of use, and

4) negative repercussions, including arguments, lying, poor achievement, social isolation, and fatigue

“excessive internet and computer usage should be labeled a mental disease”. Makes sense to me; excessive anything is a problem though, isn’t it?

Everything in moderation.

Lame Posting Schedule Coming to an End?

I hope so. I’m working on it.

Despite my infrequent posting here, I do enjoy blogging and want to be doing more of it. I have been sidetracked by a crazy work schedule as well as having to deal with some unpleasant life stuff. The good news is that the unpleasant life stuff is coming to an end, and the crazy work schedule will probably continue for a while, but I’m trying to make a little more room in my life for doing things that I enjoy doing. Blogging here is one of them.

So for those of you still reading my feed or visiting, I want to hear from you, and I’m interested in your thoughts on what you’d like to see here. I plan to continue in the spirit of interesting pros and cons of technology and how it affects families and kids. I will continue to try to avoid hype and I don’t want to be an endless stream of fear-mongering about online predators and the evils of [insert name of popular social networking site here].

Simple Secret to Improving Your Family’s Well-Being

On a weekday morning, last week, I was waking up, still a bit groggy, when I heard my daughter excitedly calling her brother over to the window, saying something about “birds”. It sounded like my son was unimpressed, but her enthusiasm was surprising for 6:45am.

When I got out of bed and went to the kitchen, I asked, “What were you showing your brother this morning? Something about birds?”

She said, “Oh ya! I was getting ready for school, and I could hear all these birds singing outside! I can’t remember the last time I heard them. I got excited.”

I laughed at the weirdness of it all — but is it that weird, really? We forget how much nature offers us when we rush around all of the time. We’re so busy with work, school, being connected to gadgets, and stuck indoors during the cold season. When winter wraps up and warmer days bring singing birds back, it really does make us feel better. We welcome back a missing piece of our wellness.

I was happy that she kicked off her morning with the happiness of the chirpy birds, but if nature is so important to the well-being of my kids, I worry a bit. They get a lot less of nature’s positive influences than my generation did as kids. I would easily spend eight to ten hours outdoors with other kids on a weekend day in the summer. The kids I see today probably spend a quarter of that time outdoors on a good day! Computers, video games, cell phones and television contribute to keeping kids indoors.

This is why a coalition of groups, led by the Rio Grande chapter of the Sierra Club, wants lawmakers in New Mexico to implement a one-percent tax on video games, game consoles, and TVs. This would create a fund to help pay for outdoor education.

“We believe that an outdoor education program in New Mexico could be funded through a tax on the very activities that are divorcing kids from nature, promoting more sedentary lifestyles,” said Michael Casaus, Sierra Club’s New Mexico youth representative. “One of those culprits is TV and what we call screen time.” (CNN)

Those are sentiments that most concerned parents share, but is more government intervention, laws, and bureaucracy really the answer? Do we really need to outsource parental responsibilities to the government?

Parents already have a lot on their plates and are stressed, but consider Richard Louv’s point from his book, “Last Child in the Woods“: Nature can be an antidote to the problems parents are experiencing. “Stress reduction, greater physical health, a deeper sense of spirit, more creativity, a sense of play, even a safer life - these are the rewards that await a family when it invites more nature into children’s lives,” he says.

It’s our job as parents to get kids off the computers and video games and get them outdoors. It is also important to be involved with them in nature and encourage it by being good role models. We should also enjoy what nature has to offer to us for our own well-being.