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Archive for July, 2005

How 21st Century Families Begin

A bit of humor I couldn’t resist sharing with you…

Little boy goes to his father and asks “Daddy, how was I born?”

The father answers: “Well, son, I guess one day you will need to find out anyway!

Your Mom and I first got together in a chat room on Yahoo. Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a cyber-cafe.

We sneaked into a secluded room, where your mother agreed to a download from my hard drive. As soon as I was ready to upload, we discovered that neither one of us had used a firewall, and since it was too late to hit the delete button, nine months later a blessed little Pop-Up appeared and said: You’ve Got Male!”

from my friend Art C.

Advice: Unplug and Slow Down

In Oxford this past week, there was a conference held called TED, which stands for Technology, Entertainment, and Design. As you would expect, the conference was loaded with people who carried all sorts of electronic gadgets. One of the speakers was Carl Honoré, journalist and author of
In Praise of Slowness.

He was there suggesting to the audience that technology was supposed to make us more efficient, but our lives are often driven by interruptions and “info-mania”, and we don’t take it slow anymore.

…[people] should unplug and slow down in a world that was stuck in fast-forward.

And for a wired world accustomed to having nearly unlimited information and the boundless choices of online shopping, it seems almost heretical to suggest that the infinite possibilities of the modern world leave us less satisfied instead of more.

Personal Note: In the last year, my reading list has had a fair number of books about trying to become more organized, more effective, more about trying to live well without going crazy. Unfortunately I seem to be surrounded by my fair share of people who can’t slow down, can’t manage their interruptions and often impose their interruptions on me (ie, cell phones), and family that wants to have the TV, radio and Computer on at once.

Across the world, people are slowing down, and they are
finding that they “eat better, make love better, exercise better, work
better”.

And Mr Honoré told a crowd flush with technology that they needed to rediscover the off button.

I hope you’ll participate, like I will be, in PC-Turnoff Week? I can’t wait!!!

Hat tip to Question Technology for giving me the heads up on the article.

Average Worker Wastes 2+ hours/day on the Web

“The average worker admits to frittering away 2.09 hours per day, not counting lunch, according to the report.”

Stop reading this headline and get back to work - CNET

Imagine all of the things you could do if you found an extra 2.09 hours per day outside of work…

School swaps textbooks for laptops

The AP article on MSNBC states:

TUCSON, Ariz. - A high school in Vail will become the state’s first all-wireless, all-laptop public school this fall. The 350 students at the school will not have traditional textbooks. Instead, they will use electronic and online articles as part of more traditional teacher lesson plans.

Vail Unified School District’s decision to go with an all-electronic school is rare, experts say. Often, cost, insecurity, ignorance and institutional constraints prevent schools from making the leap away from paper.

For the record, and I’ve stated this before, I do a lot of learning off of paper, because I haven’t found many adequate ways to do that same learning online. So I find it difficult to accept the notion that there is a need or a justification to make a “leap away from paper”.

“The efforts are very sporadic,” said Mark Schneiderman, director of education policy for the Software and Information Industry Association. “A minority of communities are doing a good or very good job, but a large number are just not there on a number of levels.”

What criteria does the Software and Information Industry Association use to determine whether or not communities are doing a good job? Are they measuring the output in terms of graduating students performance, or would the industry association be measuring the dollars that the community pays into the industry? I might be naive, but I thought that generally industry associations are there to promote the growth and profitability of that particular industry.

Calvin Baker, superintendent of Vail Unified School District, said the move to electronic materials gets teachers away from the habit of simply marching through a textbook each year.

Don’t blame the teacher for the bad habit of simply marching through the textbook, blame the textbook. Replace the textbook with a computer. Now your uninspiring teacher is going to simply march through a list of websites while half of the class surfs Starpulse.com or IM’s each other.

It’s not clear how the change to laptops will work, he conceded. “I’m sure there are going to be some adjustments. But we visited other schools using laptops. And at the schools with laptops, students were just more engaged than at non-laptop schools,” he said.

The more I read that article, the less I’m encouraged. It doesn’t really sound like they’ve done their research. They’re charging ahead, tossing the books, spending hundreds of thousands on laptops, and they’re not clear how the change to laptops will work.

They’re justification is based on a vague notion that, at other schools that they visited, the students appeared to be more engaged.

All of this brings back memories of the first few chapters of Dr. Jane Healy’s book, Failure to Connect, in which she describes the enthusiasm of people in the software industry to get their software into the school systems and the blind faith mixed with glee that educators have regarding getting the kids onto computers. They are thinking, all the while, that the learning is now going to automatically happen thanks to all of the wonderful technology. Meanwhile the kids are really getting very little out of it.

The article didn’t go into enough detail to answer all of my questions, so I wonder:

Have the teachers undergone special training in how to teach with this new medium?

Who’s going to train the students on how to effectively use these tools? How much time is that going to take away from their regular curriculum?

The article cited that the laptops will cost $850 for each student, while the text books ran $600-700. However, a laptop is analogous to a book that’s full of blank pages. Where does the content come from? You must now buy software and pay for online content providers to let them use their services. Software typically costs more than the machine itself.

How much is the network infrastructure going to run the school, to keep these $850 laptops connected?

How many IT professionals is the school going to need to hire to maintain the networks, laptops and software?

At any one time, how many students are going to be without the use of their laptop because of hardware or software failures? What about damage from carelessness? When the laptops decide to be ornery and not work, how will that disrupt the learning experience? When hands are raised, will it be “I don’t understand the solution that you just showed us, can you go over that again?” or will it be, “I can’t connect to the network, and I’m getting an error at 0×034FDEE4 in KERNEL32.DLL.”

Would you let your kids play these games?

Brett Levy won’t let his… On DadTalk, he talks about games like Grand Theft Auto and 25 to Life and says, There Are Some Video Games My Children Will Never Play.

The scary thing is that many kids are playing these games. It doesn’t help that
Amazon lists Grand Theft Auto in the Kids & Family Section.

Stuck supporting family and friend’s computers? Help is on the way.

This past Thanksgiving, we talked about how thousands of kids would migrate home to be served turkey with all of the fixin’s, and then be subjected to hours of having to fix their relatives’ computers.

At Fog Creek Software, the interns are working on a project that promises to make life easier for all of us techies who have technically illiterate relatives.

Let me quote part of their post so you know what I’m referring to:

“Click START”

“What?”

“Start. Click Start. It’s in the bottom left.”

“I have C - T - R - L in the bottom left.”

This is when you give up and realize that something that could take you 10 seconds to fix in person is about to become a two hour nightmare during which you’ll alienate your family, lose sleep, tie up the phone line while your Auntie Marge is stuck on the turnpike with no gas and can’t get through to your uncle to come rescue her, and curse your lot in life. Just because you’re a programmer doesn’t mean you have to be the help desk for a dozen friends, relatives, and the people in the apartment next door. Does it?

My sentiments exactly.

They call it “Fog Creek CopilotSM (internally they call it Project Aardvark). They aim to create a remote access service than can establish a connection with only a few mouse clicks, and it will work through firewalls and not require any configuration, installation, or uninstallation. Sweet.

I use FogBUGZ, their bug tracking / project management software. It’s a pleasure to use, thanks to Joel and his team’s focus on making it simple to configure and use, and their attention to the little details.

Fear of Spyware Changing Online Habits

This AP News Report cites a new Pew Study that indicates that people are getting more cautious in how they are using the Internet.

NEW YORK (AP) — Internet users worried about spyware and adware are shunning specific Web sites, avoiding file-sharing networks, even switching browsers.

Many have also stopped opening e-mail attachments without first making sure they are safe, the Pew Internet and American Life Project said in a study issued Wednesday.

From Pew/Internet:

Spyware and the threat of unwanted programs being secretly loaded onto computers are becoming serious threats online. Nine out of ten internet users say they have adjusted their online behavior out of fear of falling victim to software intrusions.

Pew Internet & American Life Project Report: Spyware Report

Michigan and Utah Set Up Registry for Opting-Out Kids from Some SPAM

The Internet can be a very scary place for parents and children. I agree with the following sentiment, but there is a lot to hope for:

“From my perspective as a parent, I’m horrified by what comes in” to her three children’s e-mail accounts, Gov. Jennifer Granholm said during a news conference Thursday. “This will put an end, we hope, to inappropriate e-mail getting to our children.”

I like the intent of this effort, but I don’t see it making much of a dent in the problem.
My thoughts on what they’re saying:

  • “The new law bans sending messages to children related to such things as pornography, illegal or prescription drugs, alcohol, tobacco, gambling, firearms or fireworks.” But what about the rest of the SPAM? What about the unsolicited emails trying to sell them products, getting them to give up other information, getting them to click on links and install spyware or viruses?
  • Signing up for the registry is free, and parents soon will be able to add their children’s instant message IDs, mobile phone numbers, fax numbers and pager numbers. Why limit it to just children? I wonder if adults could also benefit by entering their own ID’s and numbers, by claiming that those ID’s and numbers belong to their children?
  • E-mail senders must comply with the new law by Aug. 1. Violators face up to three years in jail or fines up to $30,000 if convicted of breaking the law, and could face civil penalties of up to $5,000 per message sent. The Internet is a global network; these laws are state laws. Not sure how they’re going to be able to enforce this with emails sent from Russia, China, etc. I think that the effort is well-meaning and headed in the right direction, but I think we’re a long way off from an effective implementation.

I would suggest the following to parents if they want to protect what’s coming into their children’s inboxes.

  • Use a service that has decent antivirus and bulk mail sorting features. I’m using Yahoo! Mail and it seems to work well.
  • Use a service that let’s you throw away emails if they start getting too much SPAM and if the filter isn’t doing it’s job effectively. If things get out of hand, create a new email address for your child.
  • Create email addresses that are unique and not likely to be previously owned. Don’t use DannyM. Use DannyM5671 or DannyDog2.
  • Talk to your kids and try to explain that giving out their emails out can be dangerous and will result in problems where they get lots of misleading emails trying to rip them off. Inevitably, your child will want to sign up for things like Lego’s game site or American Girl doll things. Have your kids involve you in those signups so that you can ensure that they are legitimate

What other things do you do to protect your children online? Leave a comment below.

Links

Protect MI Child

Utah Child Protection Registry

Michigan Aims to Block Spam Sent to Kids, AP News

Marine in Iraq Sees New Baby Girl on Web

Peter and Stacy Boucher, despite being separated by an ocean and then some, were able to share the miracle of the birth of their daughter, through the miracle (albeit a much smaller miracle) of modern technology. Peter is stationed in Iraq and Stacy lives in Michigan.

MOUNT CLEMENS, Mich. (AP) — A U.S. Marine in Iraq was able to view doctors displaying his newborn daughter via the Internet soon after her birth Friday at a suburban Detroit hospital.

“I love that technology is helping me share this moment with my husband,” Stacy Boucher said before the birth, adding that she last saw her husband about six months ago. “It’s hard being away. You try to stay as close as you can.”

AP Article Here

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