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Boys Being Boys

My friend Gary writes me just now:

Right near the ‘ice house’ on Route 1 there is a bridge over the Hammonasset River.  Tonight around dusk I’m driving towards the bridge and see three boys sitting on the railing in bathing suits.  I figure they’ve been jumping into the river.  As I drive by I realize that they’ve got they drawers dropped and are mooning the traffic.  It’s nice to see kids away from the video games and having fun in the real world.

It is refreshing to see kids doing the normal kid stuff that we grew up doing, and it’s apparently unusual enough to warrant special notice and comment from Gary.

Where are the Children?

Where are the Children?:

“Of all the things that make me feel as though my time was in the past and I don’t understand this world today, first on my list is the absence of children playing outdoors in suburban neighborhoods.

“Here in Madison, I go for walks past 20 or 30 blocks of houses — good-sized houses with lovely yards and neat sidewalks. Big shade trees line streets that are too narrow to attract any through traffic. And I don’t see any children playing. I see an occasional toy vehicle like the one in the photograph, but not one child. No one rides by on a bike or a tricycle or scooter. Swing sets are empty. No one is playing hopscotch or jumping rope. There are no ball games or frisbees. No kids are running around and yelling. Nothing! Where are they?”

Yes, probably indoors, watching the Disney channel, Cartoon Network, Nickelodeon, or playing video games, or IMing their friends for hours on end.

When I was a kid, Mom and Dad said, “Get out of the house!!!”. They didn’t want to see us during the day and if they did, they were trying to get us out of their sight. We’d disappear in the woods and be gone for hours doing all sorts of things that we were likely to get hurt doing.

Today’s parent is more likely to say, “Wait, I’ll go outside with you in a minute… I don’t want you out of my sight.”

Do you think parental fear is out of control? How do you think this is affecting kids today?

Humans United Against Robots

Has your Roomba been looking at you funny, or making threatening movements towards you?

HUAR – Humans United Against Robots – was designed to educate and aware the citizenry of the world of the impending attack that computers and robots will put into effect against humans. HUAR is the collection of human beings that spread the word of this opposing doom as well as doing what they can to help minimize the threat.

Is the Internet Making Us Stupid?

Something profound seems to be happening to the human brain,” says Susan Greenfield, Oxford professor and head of the Royal Institution of Great Britian, “and what really worries me is that we could be sleepwalking into a new world of technology without even considering what it is doing to our brains.”

Hours spent in front of computer screens and TV everyday increase dopamine production in our brains, she contends, and other scientists suggest that these higher dopamine levels can result in changes in how the brain works.

Are the changes good or bad? Perhaps a little of both. On the negative side, shorter attention spans and being more risk-averse are some of the changes that she’s noted. This might be playing into afflictions that are on the rise in young people, such as obesity, gambling, drinking and violence.

She adds, speaking of the generations attached to screens, “They will be people who are more hedonistic and tend to live for the moment, a life that is more sensory and less cognitive.”

On the positive side, some people can actually benefit from being less cautious or more risk-averse, she admits. She’s not against the use of technology. She strongly advocates research and large-scale studies to determine how technology affects our brains. So far, all we seem to have is mostly anecdotal evidence; we need some science to back up our observations.

Parents do not want to wait five to ten years for science to provide an unequivocal answer. There seems to be plenty of anecdotal evidence to convince any parent that too much screen time isn’t good for kids.

Once I was a scuba diver in the sea of words. Now I zip along the surface like a guy on a Jet Ski.” That’s how Nicholas Carr describes how heavy use of the Net has changed his reading ability. “The deep reading that used to come naturally has become a struggle.” he says. He also has anecdotes from his friends — including a medical blogger, and a literature major — who say that they’ve experienced the same changes in reading habits.

“I think I know what’s going on. For more than a decade now, I’ve been spending a lot of time online, searching and surfing and sometimes adding to the great databases of the Internet. The Web has been a godsend to me as a writer. Research that once required days in the stacks or periodical rooms of libraries can now be done in minutes. A few Google searches, some quick clicks on hyperlinks, and I’ve got the telltale fact or pithy quote I was after. Even when I’m not working, I’m as likely as not to be foraging in the Web’s info-thickets—reading and writing e-mails, scanning headlines and blog posts, watching videos and listening to podcasts, or just tripping from link to link to link. (Unlike footnotes, to which they’re sometimes likened, hyperlinks don’t merely point to related works; they propel you toward them.)”

Even though we are on the Internet, we’re still reading. It’s just a web browser instead of a book, and some studies suggest that kids are reading more because of the Internet. While that may be true, online reading is less focused, people read short snippets before they click on a link and are zipped off to read another snippet, and there are a lot of distractions online.

Reading differently results in us thinking differently. We’re not reading as deeply. We aren’t as engaged and we’re easily distracted. This new reading style favors efficiency and immediacy rather than depth, reflection, and contemplation.

So what’s the takeaway from all of this? Like wine and chocolate, the Internet is good for you, but only if you use it moderately.

References:

Hat Tip to Kevin Arthur who brought one of the articles to my attention.

Grounded 12-Year-Old Sues Parents, Get’s Punishment Overturned!

A 12-year-old girl spends too much time online, posts inappropriate pictures of herself, gets grounded, and then takes her dad to court… and wins!!

The father’s attorney says what every parent ought to know as common sense:

“She’s a child,” Beaudoin told AFP. “At her age, children test their limits and it’s up to their parent to set boundaries. I started an appeal of the decision today to reestablish parental authority, and to ensure that this case doesn’t set a precedent.”

But Justice Suzanne Tessier might be off her rocker:

According to court documents, the girl’s Internet usage was the latest in a rash of disciplinary problems. But Justice Suzanne Tessier, who was presiding over the case, found the punishment too severe.

That’s right… Grounding your child for a rash of disciplinary problems, including excessive computer use and posting inappropriate pictures online is considered too severe.

Mommy, Why is There a Server in the House?

This cracked me up, and some of the “reviews” have some additional humor in them as well.

Mommy, Why is There a Server in the House?
Click to see comments and reviews which are kind of funny too.


Apparently a marketing stunt by Microsoft to promote their Home Server product.

How Much Does Searching for Cheaper Gas Cost the Average Person?

So I get an  email today from one of those friendly family members that likes to forward things on to everybody in his address book.

name removed wrote:

Hi All,

Found this today and it seems to be pretty accurate. MSN does some sort of polling and checks gas prices every night. You just enter your Zip code and scroll down and find the stations near you. It actually has a wide radius.

Anyway, it’s fun to play with and you can check out which way to head when looking for your next load approval when you fill up!!!

Best to ALL….     

http://autos.msn.com/everyday/gasstations.aspx?zip=&src=Netx

Hmmm. The difference between the most expensive place on the local list and the least expensive place is 20 cents…

But those are the two extremes. If I look at the possibility of all of the gas stations that are on the list that I’ve ever gone to, and are likely to be the ones that I continue to go to, the difference between most expensive and least expensive is about 8 cents a gallon.

So for my 15 gallon tank, on a fill from empty, I’m looking at paying around $55.80 or $57.00.  That’s a $1.20 difference.  If I’m filling only a half a tank, then that’s a $0.60 difference.  Put a different way, we’re talking about a 2% savings.

Is it even worth the extra effort to consult the map, figure out who’s the cheapest and then make the effort to choose a station that isn’t on your normal path just to save that little?

While the technology is interesting, and the idea that you can pull up the data and give it a quick review, the amount of time you waste in doing so is more than what you’ll probably save.

My suggestion for saving real money on gasoline:  Drive less!!  ;-)

All of the penny pinchers that I know never hesitate to put 20 miles on a car to pick up a gallon of milk!

UPDATE: Within 10 minutes of me writing this, a buddy calls me up and says, “Holy Cow! I can’t believe how much gas is! I just put $62 in my car to fill it up!”

Look… if you need to drive, do you have a choice? You have to buy gas. When it’s basically the same price everywhere, you are going to have to pay the price. Complainin’ ain’t going to do you any good and you just wasted 5 minutes of my time that I could have been off doing something to make some more money so that I can afford gas too!

;-)

RIAA: Litigious Bullies?

I don’t like bullies and if you ask me, the best way to deal with a bully that won’t leave you alone is to punch them in the nose.

That’s why I like the story of Tanya Andersen and how she’s successfully fought back the RIAA and now she’s going after them for their questionable — possibly illegal — legal tactics.

Is Myspace Good for Society?

According to some experts, the mainstream media has been unfair to social
networking sites like
MySpace, and Facebook. School principles even send memos home, warning parents to
beware of the dangers of the popular web hangouts that kids are increasingly
spending time on.

A handful of people who study these types of things were asked if these sites
were as bad as they are made out to be. Their opinions varied
on what the pros and the cons were, but none of what they had to say was
scary in the least, and some were critical of the negative media coverage.

Social networking is about building social capital, and these tools facilitate
that. These virtual worlds aren’t a good place to live your whole life in, but
they are making it easier for kids to make connections with people outside of
their local social circles. In doing so, they learn new things, get exposed
to new ideas, and can blaze new trails. The vast majority of kids are wise enough
to know to stay out of trouble and when trouble finds them, they know how to deal
with it.

If parents help to guide their children in their use of these tools, they
can minimize the chances that the kids will engage in risky behavior, or put too
much personal information online, and then the kids can safely benefit from
the positive aspects of social networking.

Read the article, and then let us know if you agree or disagree?

Student 3.0: Now with Gigabit Ethernet Built In

Have you tested your kids’ to make sure that they are operating at the optimal download bit-rates in school?

Parents, school administrators, and teachers can’t seem to effuse enough about the wonders of computers in education. They insist we need to have wired schools; otherwise, a lack of adequate computing resources is going to cripple our kids’ success when they enter the real world.

Computers are beneficial. Their ability to simulate, automate, and communicate is amazing. The Internet can easily retrieve text, sound, video and more, from anywhere in the world in mere milliseconds. Over one-hundred million websites exist, ready to render up information and Google is ready to connect you with it, assuming that you can put the right keywords into the search box and click the mouse.

Some view education as the transfer and buildup of knowledge, so connecting kids with computers seems like the right thing to do, since computers are very adept at storing, retrieving, transferring, and presenting information.

Unfortunately, people start confusing the way computers work with how kids’ brains work. They assume that googling something and getting back information educational. Steve Talbott refers to this as the fact-shoveling model of education. Worse, some people think it’s less important to know things because you can always look it up on demand, later when you need it.

In Steve’s most recent newsletter, he points out that real education involves much more than acquiring facts. Minds also need training to be “capable of attending in a sustained, focused, ever more deeply penetrating way to whatever aspect of the world and its problems we are addressing…” The way that the mind’s cognitive processes and creative, imaginative abilities work is entirely unrelated to the way computers process and deliver information.

He’s concerned, not that we don’t have enough computers in education, but perhaps education has already become too computerized. He’s concerned that in the past couple of decades that education has gotten away from teach kids how to connect the dots, and creative and imaginative problem solving. Education is evolving into fact shoveling, in part due to the influences of the information revolution and people’s blind enthusiasm for technology.

Do you see efforts in your schools to wire them and put technology into the kids’ hands without a real understanding or plan as to how this is actually going to benefit the kids? Do they just see technology as a silver bullet and just assume that it will make the kids smarter because it can just download more facts into their brains?